不歡更何待

Thursday, 31 May 2007

那夜，她們來我家吃飯，吃多喝多，movenpick雪糕好好味呀！爸媽後來聊天，媽媽一向的習慣於憂慮說，吃太多了，爸說，人生，好花不常開，好景不常在。
父母喜愛設筵席，一場幾個朋友，他們的朋友，或者我的朋友的筵席。筵席，吃完便散，散了下次再吃，春去秋來便一世人了。今日已經星期四！彈指而過的時光。
有幾多人真的徹底明白好花不常在的味道。可是當徹底明白了，又走到了別處光境，別處的好花，別處的不常在。無無明，乃至無無明盡。週而復始的感慨，放眼都是的感慨。
J陰功地寫RSVP。成世人追求的，戀愛，書寫，探戈，請客吃飯，就是RSVP。其實RSVP就是不歡更何待－－說一句俏皮的話，就是希望一個俏皮的回覆，一個微笑就是希望一個微笑，張開的臂彎是渴望另一雙張開的臂彎，煲一碗靚湯，就是等一句嘩好甜。如果唔係咁，做人唔通係為啖氣，求名求利求真理。以有涯隨無涯殆矣。做人係簡單到無倫，都係求不得。求不得。去去！

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6 Responses to “不歡更何待”

Raymond writes:
No. 1 — June 2nd, 2007 at 3:18 pm
It has been a long time. Still remember the bed and the computer; the lady in high heels, gracefully sitting upright; the radiating red nail polish, the red roses. In front of me rite now, a peice of towel, I can’t help exclaiming; three years vanished in a blink. I saw the changes in the group: scattered pixels of a full picture, certainly. Anyhow, there were the changes noticed by an outsider. I saw you in real: at the new book release of Yi Hing, at the dancing demos in CU. I see the real you in the virtual world behind the words. Hoping that you feel the inner peace, steadily not statically, flowing yet vividly.
J writes:
No. 2 — June 2nd, 2007 at 7:06 pm
兩老變成了我的酒肉朋友, 損友!!

除了你家我很少賞面筵席的, 且又有哪些算得上? 可稱霸只有它- 它means吳老爸廚藝加上吳老媽的殷勤加上我姊的movenpick. 你知道我跟外人來客套時的樣的, 對著他們也真的少了門面工夫, 飯來張口, 啊可能是酒興發。

喂, 我和姊恨不得有這個家呀, 姊姊, 可?
Raymond writes:
No. 3 — June 2nd, 2007 at 7:11 pm
(Retype, somehow, the previous short notes failed to be uploaded) Three years passed. Moving from one company to another. Moving from one city to another. Finally, back to the origin. White towel, fading of red roses and nail polish. The tone of writing remains. Material life enriched by functions and programmes scheduled. The inner self, calm, steady, hopfully not stagnant but with peace flowing vividly. My friend, forgot to review the year 2004 with you. So may be this year.
R writes:
No. 4 — June 3rd, 2007 at 12:17 am
係呀係呀，我都好羨慕吳小姐有這個家！所以我會周不時唔知醜咁去佢家中作客，黐吓人家的溫馨！哈哈。
H writes:
No. 5 — June 4th, 2007 at 6:40 pm
你好，以中文回覆，多多包涵。這幾年是
「如何不被所愛佔領
如果還想愛得更多
如何不被更多佔領」
謝謝你的祝福，也祝你幸福。
H writes:
No. 6 — June 4th, 2007 at 6:51 pm
R & J，
呢ｄ叫天倫之樂，阿J話。我係第一次覺得，以及從心底裡感觸到人為什麼想延續下一代。爸爸媽媽令我覺得真正感動，這份感動係打破social dimension：人係幾多歲「反正」都要結婚果種，政府宣傳片又話家庭係點點果種，拍左好多年拖都係要結婚果種。佢地令我一次又一次去相信，人係有相親相愛既能力同埋冀盼。強烈到好似calling咁。