2007 August 13 | 看不開

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「有時他們回家」

Monday, 13 August 2007

他對你interested。她認為你interesting。你對他有interests。底牌同樣是葵扇。不過是葵扇三還是葵扇煙呢。其實沒有所謂，輸或者贏。還是要看同一副牌，是葵扇三同花順不錯，或者葵扇煙拖雜不lung三五七九。再講，你不是已經對輸贏厭倦嗎？我拆局，跟Ｊ說，如今，不如觀自在。事情不是輸贏論，傾向只以溝通理性運作。對你有興趣／認為你有趣／對他有利益，可以是同一場面同一對白的三種變化詞。有些人是由interests然後發覺interesting，然後是interested。有些人是從來都只是interesting或者interests，而never develop to be an “interested” scenario。也有由interested，然後發現一點也不interesting，但因為interests，所以繼續。在街上見到的或者聽聞的可是多是interested而不interesting，我便納悶。因為interested代表放下而interesting代表發現。大家都interesting但不interested又叫人惋惜，因為發現了又無法發展。擺出interested但實際是interesting係大部份人的錯手。對方往往不能把錯手者caught red-handed是因為大家都無法draw the line between interested and interesting。留意前者是主動的，而後者可以跟主體無關的，只是客觀價值。我卻認為「你很有趣」裡面包涵了「（對我而言）你很有趣」的意味－－你的有趣從來不只是，冷冰冰的客觀存在，而其實是相對於我存在的意義。回家的意思是一條龍，由interesting，然後到interested，之後再發展common interests，就是美滿的經濟文化共同體。回家，有時他們回家。多數時侯，他們不。

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serial time killer

Please let him come, and give me the resilience & guts to make him respect me, be interested, and not to throw myself at him with loudness or hysterical yelling; calmly, gently, easy baby easy. He is probably strutting the backs among crocuses now with seven Scandinavian mistresses. And I sit, spiderlike, waiting, here, home; Penelope weaving webs of Webster, turning spindles of Tourneur. Oh, he is here; my black marauder; oh hungry hungry. I am so hungry for a big smashing creative burgeoning burdened love: I am here; I wait; and he plays on the banks of the river Cam like a casual faun.

Sylvia Plath (via pkam)

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In order to arrive at a personal style, you have to have a technique to begin with. In other words, when I say that style is a special case of technique, you have to have the technique — you have to have a place to make the choices from. If you don’t have a basis on which to make the choice, then you don’t have a style at all. You have a series of accidents.

“You practice and you get better. It’s very simple,” iconic composer Philip Glass famously said. A new NPR interview by his cousin,This American Life’s Ira Glass, gleans deeper insight into the philosophy and creative process of the modern genius. (via curiositycounts)

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