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1. The few things that aren’t going right. – When things go wrong, take a moment to be thankful for all the other things that are still going right. And if you’re struggling to be thankful for what you have, be thankful for what you have escaped. Sometimes the best gifts in life are the troubles you don’t have.

2. Trying to label everyone and everything. – Sometimes you’ve just got to take people and situations for what they are, appreciate them, and not try to label them or change them.

3. Worrying about what everyone else thinks. – The minute you stop overwhelming your mind with caring about what everyone else thinks, and start doing what you feel in your heart is right, is the minute you will finally feel freedom.

4. Wasting time on the wrong people. – You cannot make someone respect you; all you can do is be someone who can be respected. No matter how much you care some people just won’t care back. At some point you have to realize the truth – that they no longer care or never did, and that maybe you’re wasting your time and missing out on someone else who does.

5. Old wounds and grudges. – You will never find peace until you learn to finally let go of the hatred and hurt that lives in your heart. In order to move on, you must know why you felt the way you did, and why you no longer need to feel that way. It’s about accepting the past, letting it be, and pushing your spirit forward with good intentions.

6. Superficial judgments. –Every human being is beautiful; it just takes the right set of eyes to see it.
7. Letting small disagreements snowball out of control. – Don’t let a single poisonous moment of misunderstanding make you forget about the countless lovable moments you’ve spent together.

8. Showing a lack of self-respect. – Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect, and attention that you should be showing yourself. Choose to be your own best friend.

Source: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/12/14/9-things-you-need-to-chill-out-about/ (Abridged)

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rainmanjdog:

The problem with analyzing data that humans often run into is bias.  We all have it.  We have a filter every time we read or see something that data flows through (or gets caught).

If you use this as an argument against a ship “so-and-so would never lie.  Are you calling so-and-so a liar?“  Your argument is already flawed.   The only people who fib as much as pathological liars or serial cheaters is actors in Hollywood.  I have exhausted myself talking about all of the couples who have lied to protect their relationships or “for reasons.“  It doesn’t mean my ship is right; it simply means that is not a valid reason for my ship to be wrong.  We recently found out Michelle Williams quietly married someone while she was “engaged” to someone else.  I love Kit but ….yeh….he lied about Rose and he lied that Jon Snow was dead and gone.  Bad Kit!  I adore Lily James but you know what?  She denied her relationship and the rumors associated with Matt Smith.  For reasons.  Ginnifer Goodwin & Josh Dallas. 

That’s all…….

nannobrycon:

RIP Boker“Bear”
2009.06.21—2018.7.22

Hey there, Anon!

lolololol When are people in this fandom not upset about something Sam or Caitriona does or says? Or doesn’t do or say? Or might do or say? With a group this large it’s impossible to please everyone. But this time is completely baffling to me. I’ve gotten Anons saying how horrible Sam is. Just because he answered a respectful fan in an honest manner?? I mean???

People are most certainly entitled to their own opinions, but saying Sam or Caitriona are disrespectful of each other is just a ludicrous idea. Because like you said, “it’s clear they are so close”. 

“We work together and we are together and things are pretty good.” ~ Sam Heughan, March 2018

[We love you and Caitriona together.] “Me too! Me too!” ~ Sam Heughan, July 2018

Do what you gotta do, Anon, to make your SM experience a good one. Otherwise what’s the point of even being in a fandom? I for one have been loving the fandom atmosphere and the epic amount of squeeing going on!

Believe what you want, fan how you want, and let others do the same. Cheers to you, Anon. And thank you for the compliment ✌💜